Ander believes most victims are coerced into believing what they are doing is right or are often threatened. And when asked by an officer why he feared he would get into trouble, he said, “We are gay.” Dr. He first claimed to be 16, then 14, according to the report. Cuellar admits to several instances of sexual abuse with the underage victim but not before first trying to lie about his age. “It doesn’t get much better than that for somebody who wishes to prey on children.” The boy tells police he performed oral sex on the 18-year-old and did so on at least 3 to 4 other occasions. “There was opportunity, there was a location and there was a child who made no outcries,” Dr. Psychotherapist Doctor Susan Ander says it’s typical for any child predator to gain a family’s trust for easier access to their victim. The boy is a sibling of one of Cuellar’s friends. In the report, Cuellar admits that he was supposed to take the unnamed male to the movies on the night officers discovered them in a parked car, shirtless with Cuellar’s pants down. Police documents indicate 18-year-old Joel Cuellar admitted to sexually abusing an 11-year-old boy continuously over a three month period before his arrest last Friday at a McAllen soccer park. New details have been released leading up to the arrest of a former Edinburg North quarterback on child sex charges.